Does the definition of love changes as we grow?
Was reading a few of my fren's blogs.. hahahz yes... i always got something to comment on.. isnt tt wat a blog is for? For ppl to read and for us to give our little comments or views? Okay.. nevamind me.. hahahz juz some of my tots anyway.. so same rules... not interested in my philosophies den click tis pg off!
Love.. why does love feels diff when we r younger..when everything is so sweet and simple... Sometimes i hate growing up. Growing up makes u see too much of the big picture.. see too much of the tis realistic world, make you think of consequences and causes and so many other things. Why??? Why cant love be simple anymore? And it doesnt hurt so much last time.. At 16, love is to be daring.. show it all.. love is everyting attitude. When u get older, u mellow..love means alot of other things. N we nv get enuf of our own personal wants..
NOw tt we grow up.. i guess we learn to love in another way.. a more complicated way that dunno y... hurts more when the dreams are shattered. Y doesnt it hurt so much last time?
And as we grow... we need to choose.. How come last time like no need to choose one ar? hahahz.. Life is full of choices now.. N sometimes u make decisions based on certain factors... well, and some factors juz seems to stand out and defeat other reasonings. So ultimately, still gotta make a decision that makes everyone happy. N ppl grow to be less naive.. Maybe becos we start to see tis realistic world.. n we r less innocent now.. Maybe becos of the things we experienced in life, we see things differently now.. It's harder to understand ppl nowadays. Layers and layers of masks or some ppl r juz unsure of many things.
But if u were to ask me to go back to the days when im 16, i tink i would not want to.. cos if so, i wont have a chance to meet some of the ppl i meet now. Isnt love and friendships a wonderful thing even though at times they might not be perfect like we want it to be?
Love.. why does love feels diff when we r younger..when everything is so sweet and simple... Sometimes i hate growing up. Growing up makes u see too much of the big picture.. see too much of the tis realistic world, make you think of consequences and causes and so many other things. Why??? Why cant love be simple anymore? And it doesnt hurt so much last time.. At 16, love is to be daring.. show it all.. love is everyting attitude. When u get older, u mellow..love means alot of other things. N we nv get enuf of our own personal wants..
NOw tt we grow up.. i guess we learn to love in another way.. a more complicated way that dunno y... hurts more when the dreams are shattered. Y doesnt it hurt so much last time?
And as we grow... we need to choose.. How come last time like no need to choose one ar? hahahz.. Life is full of choices now.. N sometimes u make decisions based on certain factors... well, and some factors juz seems to stand out and defeat other reasonings. So ultimately, still gotta make a decision that makes everyone happy. N ppl grow to be less naive.. Maybe becos we start to see tis realistic world.. n we r less innocent now.. Maybe becos of the things we experienced in life, we see things differently now.. It's harder to understand ppl nowadays. Layers and layers of masks or some ppl r juz unsure of many things.
But if u were to ask me to go back to the days when im 16, i tink i would not want to.. cos if so, i wont have a chance to meet some of the ppl i meet now. Isnt love and friendships a wonderful thing even though at times they might not be perfect like we want it to be?
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