Open minded? or conservative?

Was having talks with others and i have some comments on some issues...
Why izzit that now in the 21st century some ppl still cant accept male and female being very close frens .. PLATONIC! And y izzit that a gal having alot of very good male frens are being seen as having a "negative" kind of behaviour or image??!!!! Frens are frens! If u can click and have chemistry tgt den it doesnt matter abt the gender.... Does gals that r conservative, blush @ the sight of a guy or dont have much guy frens are consider Virtuous ,decent and proper????

It all lies in the person values and personality lor. Im not saying all are wrong. Of cos there are gals behaving in a manner that i cannot accept and are way out of the framework to consider decent. But generally i consider the ppl i noe are all decent and have very upright moral.

In the modern society, gals are also having the rights to have freedom and control of their own life! THis is my principle and it will not change. My views on this have been like tt years ago and it still remains. It doesnt change despite the fact that i might have changed thru the years and have grown up in a no of ways. Guys may prefer demure and compromising gfs. BUt having ur own views and ur own life doesnt not mean that they r not gd gfs. Gals dun have the duty to be so and of cos are not acceptable to be unreasonable. Thus a balance of both is needed...

Oh ya.. to the many qns marks that some peeps might have. No, i did not have a fight wif anyone. Its juz tt tis topic has always been one that i quite often communicate with others abt and that i have very strong views abt it. oh.. wish me luck for my HR paper tml ya. Exams are HERE!!!! GRrrrrr.........

family day!~

today is family outing day! woo-hoo! My dad having gd mood today.. treat us to a some chi restaurant @ jurong east. got shark fins soup somemore.not bad heez.. den went over to my granny's place followed by shopping @ bugis! my sis and mum on shopping spree sia bought so many tops and bags lor. heez but i oso managed to make them buy me a off shoulder 3/4 sleeve top! heez *happy gal*!!!

hmmm reply wat ZR has tagged..hmm 3 hrs of revising like not v enuf leh. i mean i only revise during study break wor. hahahhz lazy bones lah.. and 3 hrs is only gd if u r productive~!!!! how i wish im not so num-nua... hahaz *smiles sheeplishly*...

AJA AJA FIGHTING!!!! jia you jia you~ muz study and revise more~~~~!!!!!! Tml i muz spend my time on revising all the lec notes for HR. Act i studied liao... tis is 2nd round le. and revise back abit of those chpts tt i studied for OTD or else i'll forget the stuffs that i memorise earlier. hmm. well that's the plan for tml!!!

*now im off to cont watching my GoonG dvd on those eps i had missed* heez..
p/s: i did revise a few lec notes for HR juz now lah. hhahahhz not tt lazy rite. keke..

exams are boring! hurrr

boring boring borinG!!!!! exams. i hate exams. y izzit that some ppl can be so motivated to study???? how come they could be so hardworkiing???? teach me!!!! maybe life is too peaceful recently so thus the boring-ness.. hmmm..

这几天生活平淡和慵懒，除了读书就是看戏或者睡觉。
脑海里却不停的想考完试后要做的事。
这几天都乖乖的在家，每有到处跑。
忽然觉得时间就这样一点一滴的溜走而我仿佛没好好利用时间使得。
生活也不过如此而以。
时间啊时间请教我怎样的好好利用你。
平淡等于幸福吗。太过幸福是否也会让人不安。

happy belated bday twinnie!

Happy belated birthday twinnie! heez hahahz oops. shld have blog yst nite hahhaz hope its not too late! Nonetheless, yst still spend bday wif u ma hor.. im a gd twinnie! Twinnie is finally 21 yst! keke.. Thks for the yummy and sinful choc cake! slurpz.. hahahz. Let me noe wt u want for ur bday soon k.. although belated liao. I want the pics taken yst!!! send me! Hope twinnie find a new gf soon! has been single for quite some time le lah.. bleahx! heez.

Yst went ViVo City wif ting in the aftnoon.. got nuttin de lor. so disappointing. orchard still da bez!!!! hahahz but we still took nice photos lah. hahahz since we took a break fr studying and went out to take a breather.. hahahz photos whoring is a MUZ! whahahahz. take a look below!
















Photos taken @ ViVo CiTy!!

oh im so useless...

Feeling so weak & useless.. reflecting on wat happened @ work.. i tink i juz painted a very bad pic of myself. yupz.. im weak, useless, incapable and cant handle stress. not that im denying. but sudd i felt bad.. Like they feel guilty tat they made me stayed til late to finish up the nv ending stuffs. but tat's probably becos im slow and inexperience and i keep chkin on wat i had keyed into the system. Guess im too pampered! i aint denying that either. the under statement is i tink i shldnt have cried.......... its a sign of weakness! BUt it definitely helps in freeding me fr the job. ITs time i shld start studying and preparing for the exams. BUt even if i din work laz wk, i dun tink i would have studied much anyway.

Haiz.. watching too much youtube today... and tis toopid virus thingy abt excessive downloading blah blah blah interception of wireless connection blahbalh error msg fr singtel pops out again. Once again, i heard my sis screaming and heading to my room... yeah... i shld have learnt fr the past incident tt i shldnt watch too much youtube cos the same prob happens laz time & i get a thrashing fr her. i juz hope my lappy dun play a joke wif me tml when i *ON* it..haiz. y i always so suay wif technology stuffs?????? and im so stubborn.. once bitten, and i still tries it the 2nd time... hurrr..........

Going back to my lec notes for tonite.. no more youtubing for the time being.. i'll juz gotta to follow wat's on Ch U every wkdays nite on 7pm and wait til the exams r over before i could get my hands on the vcd fr yanting. *sighz* im a DrAma Freak.. kill me.

Stressed!~

i noe im not capable.. nv say that i am anyway.. duh.... the solution has arrived.. They decided to move the desktop to my payroll's hse so that she can work at home. yupz. 我解脱了！~ yupz dun need to work liao. can concentrate on studying liao.. heez.

Everyone sudd treat me so nicely today becos of wat happen yst. i mean i really appreciate it lah. but reflecting back.. i tink im such a baby! hahahhz yes all of u out there would so very agree rite??! haiz. feel kinda useless. like i din manage to complete the entire task well. There' a limit to my capabilities. oh watever.. call me weak & useless den.. im tired.... nv say that im gd anyway... im always lousy but lucky cos i alway find help or find an easier way out. TaDa... and things will juz happen and move on..

hurr..

tired and stressed out............

stressed! tired! i really cant take it any longer... hurrr... work is so stressful! im a TEMP!
lucky the peeps there are nice.. but i still couldnt help it juz now but cried looking @ the pile of paper work to be keyed while looking @ the clock ticking away to 9 and almost everyone had left the office............ hahhaz im sorry i tink i kinda gave "daddy", weiliang and alvin a scare seeing my puffy red and mascara smeared eyes wif tears on my face.....hahahz. but thanks for being there dudes! appreciated! couldnt stand keying anymore tonite.. i noe they need the help.. im not complaining.. juz whining... and i seriously need to get some time to study. haiz. Being student is da bez ya. bleahx..

hahaz anyway, had ice cream wif "daddy" & "cong cong"! yummy yummy! they cheered up my remaining laz few hours of the day!

* im really tired.. gg to slp soon.. *

busy busy busy! payroll is hard merticulous work!

Been working for the past few days... Janet my payroll went for an op.. so im back to the office to do her stuffs under her guidance thru the phone.. Payrolll is hard work! and u have to be very merticulous! and im not! hahahz plus i have only 2 days to "master" the system and key in all the timesheets for temps & perms.. hurr... i still got 1 stack of timesheets to be cleared tml morn. Next wk den i can have time to fully concentrate on my studies!.. exams! wat a dread.. i tink i am really lacking of the time to study! So tired aft work everyday. At least we Finally finish up the laz assignment of tis sem! Handed in WiL3 on mon! phew..

Im now crazy over the new korean show, Princess Hours aka GoonG!!!! i had a hard time controlling myself to watch it from youtube sia.. haiz... only allow myself to watch selective episodes and mv.. cos i noe once i watch full episodes i cant stop! den i wont have to study!!! Right aft exams im gg to get the vcd fr yanting and chiong ahhhhhh.... hhhaahhaz and all other taiwan ou xiang ju.. heez.. ;P dun i wish the holis are here already.. *bleahx*

p/s: thks & HuGGies to twinnie, yanting & boo for the wonderful 健宁家一日游!!! it was FUN!!!!
keke..& hong & KeNi for the mac breakfast! wahhahaz. i want happy meal's toy! heezz

updates and “偶而”。。。

Updates updates.. i tink my LM test on MOn is a goner.. Every qns i really ans it in 1 full page.. i shldnt even say every qns.. is 3 out of 5 qns i manage to ans in 1 full pg while the other 2 is merely a half a pg of crap! *sighz* im really gg to flunk LM lah. But MOn wasnt all that bad. Went for prata@ thomson for supper wif boo & raymond. ANd i finally get to ride on boo's scrambler!! ahahz okay.. im a pillion i noe! hahahhaz but still fun lah! plus i got my brand new shiny black helmet which i wear liao look very funny! hahhahz my head looks so small for the helmet lah.

okok enuf of that. Tues's evening spent @ National Art museum being usher for Credit suisse's 150th anni gala dinner. Damn glam lah and the FOOD! manage to get a few bites and a few glasses of champange and dessert wine at the end of the event. wahhahaz. U see all the bankers and high flyers *bling bling* here and there. woo hoo.. So morale of the story.. get a banker bf! whahahz muz use tis to motivate my boo! whahahz. ok lah cant be so materialistic rite. Toopid "daddy" say one. hahahz. anyway, its juz money earning day. whahaz They have tis ball of red roses like everywhere! On every table, the stage, the entrance of the dinner area.. blah blah. and i manage to "koop" one ball back! whahaaha. nice flowers!!

Wed..WIL discussion.. den Me, ting and yuling went New York New York for dinner! yummy yummy! although we queued like for ages but we had fun! but the dessert hor got pepper de leh.. abit duh rite. but we get another plate complimentary lah. so alrite lah. hahhhaz. Den no more fun today le. Working @ adecco.. yes im back there for some ad hoc duties. hmm my source of $$ for twinnie's and boo's prezzies.. den im broke again! *duh* hahahz.

Haiz.. tis is my life lor. hwhahahaz...

偶而。
偶而会想起
偶而会想听
回忆已变成一段淡淡的过去
傻笑自己以前的傻
珍惜自己现在所拥有的幸福
岁月让人成长也明白
人生也只不过是这么短暂而以
要学会开心
要懂得放开心怀来拥抱幸福

why everyone so emo.. i want my frens to be happy....

我换了blogskin 了！是飞轮海的！
anyway, everyone is pretty emo recently.. im so odd.. everytime when everyone is happy im emo. when ppl emo im in my happy state. not tt im sadis lah..hahhaz. maybe im happy when they r emo so that i can cheer them up? i seriously hope so..

我不喜欢看到朋友难过。
可是世界总会有让人苦恼的事情，
庸人自扰是人的本性。
其实我觉得我很幸福，
我不是要炫耀我的幸福。
我只是觉得做人要知足常乐。
而我整天只会埋怨着生活的不足。
有时很简单的东西也可以很让人欣慰很开心的。
谁没有伤心难过的经验？
可是人生的路还很长，
世界不会因为你的不快乐而停止转动。
要其他人爱你要先爱自己！
有朋友真的很好，
虽然我不可以说自己是一个很好的朋友，
可是我尽力了！
我喜欢我的朋友都幸福！

*我和一个“老朋友”通了电话。感觉不错。希望他过的幸福。我没有怨恨或埋怨，只是单纯的希望他过的很好很幸福。*

busy busy..

FInally handed in my OTD grp proj on tues!! yeah!! i tink we did a pretty gd job!!! hahhahhaz!! *pride* Tues: was wearung my super high new heels but it RAINED! duh., ok twinnie say i shld stop acting like a bimbo! hahahahz okie twinnie i dun have the criteria to be a bimbo leh. wahhahz. Celebrated VAnessa's bday on tues! Dinner @ hog's breath is great~! yummy!~ Drinking coffee liqueur @ pasir ris beach in the middle of nite is pretty cool! eh but not very fun when u meet drunkards.. duh. ok nvm.. hahahz. Den we went over to lydia's hse to play game overnite! Tis game call cidertel recommended by Kaiyin is nice! i din noe i can play strategy games sia. wahhahhahaz. Anyway, i only have like 2 hrs of slp den off i went back home to change and den to sch on wed. im so amazed by myself. whahz. damn tired lor but fun lah! heez. I hope van u have a memorable bday wif us,ya!

hmmm. im totally broke. haven been working recently. busy wif so many projs and severely lacking of slp. hurr.. gotten study for my test which i dun understand wat the text is toking abt. my gdness. grrrr...... so damn tired everyday. hmmm

wat else to blog.. oh.. im crazy over tis new boyband called fahrenheit! Fei Lun Hai!!!! heez shuai! im wishing the holidays come quickly so that i could watch their ou xiang ju <> and alot of other taiwan dramas on my list...!!! like mike he jun xiang's , zai zai's , and so many more new one that i doubt singapore have the vcd yet like <>..hmmm.. i like shuai ge!!! heez.

Oh ya. boo finally gotten his 2nd hand bike aka scrambler today! yeah im gg to be a biker chick! but i tink he would "lobang" me so soon. cos still quite dangerous sia.. until he is more seasoned on the rds first ba. hmm a few wks more before i can finally ride on a bike! nv done tt before. i tink is damn cool lah! whahahz. my bf is a biker!!!! hahhahaz okok..

*yawnz* GaGa gg off to try to study for test! whahaz. *sniff bao bao*

CHilling out.. and wat is gg on recently..

Chillin out is da bez way to relax and get away fr all the projs.

Wed: impromptu meet up wif twinnie and "daddy" yingda for dinner, buy meiyi's present and chilling out at villa bali which is joined by yingyi and sammantha....Had Fun!!

THurs: Finally gotta the chance to meet up wif SME peeps Jackson & Chee Tiong & da fellow biz gals meiyi & nat.. those was the days when we are working tgt using our blackberry to gossip and ask abt work..heez. Went new york new york and chill out at some jazz pub recommended by Jackson.

Fri: MEet up wif the gals , val and lydia aft doing OTD in sch. Ate marche at suntec.. we tok quite a fair bit.., its a nice feeling toking to frens.. U noe... im always here if u all need me.
Aft tt "daddy" came and pick me up to go chill @ timbre.., pretty nice place.. got nice pizza and the band tt was playing there tt nite got a very shuai lead singer.. wooo wat more can i ask for? drink, food and a cute guy? hahhahz

Sat: MyHK relatives are here. Brought my HK cousin to newton circle to eat.. . me, her and my sis ate like 8 items! im not kidding u. and we finished like 80% of the food.. all the stingray lah, oyster omelete lah, chix wings, satay,sotong,chilli crab, baby kai lan and i dunn rem wat else lah. hahahz went villa bali to chill. yippee!

I tink i have got a pretty packed wk. hahahhz though most of my day time is rushing for projects. hurr. ok but im broke! hmmm. starhub got any rdshow anot???????