i always tot that people who are crazily in love are impractical. Not that i have never been like that before but i believe that being tgt is more than just love. Ya and of cos the starting stage of any relationship is crazy hahaha i agree. Anyway, The topic came up with one of my bestie have some probs with her bf. And like i always like to say, if you are considering being tgt for long term you have to look into issues like background, lifestyles, personalities and not just feelings alone. Of cos we cant expect someone soooo compatiable and fit right into our lifestyle or have background similar to us or even personality that is a perfect match. But as much as we understand and respect the indifferences that everyone has, we also must look at how big these indifferences are and how we can cope with them. Lifestyles reflect how things are being done in a certain manner that we are accustomed to. It is hard to be changed....Well, while embracing the indifferences between couples, there is a need to understand one another's background as it explains why the party mentality about certain issues etc.
So my advice is try to solve or compromise and respect all indifferences, if cannot be done then its not healthy in the long run.
my dear fren, jiayou k, no matter what i will be here for you!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 在远处我知道你应该过的很好。 Everthing is fine on your side所以 你一定要幸福。 ~~~~~~~ 我在daiso买了一本notebook, and the covers says:
"Happy- 1. feeling or showing pleasure or contentment a happy smile. 2. causing pleasure a happy day for the company 3. suitable; fortunate a happy coincidence."
I ever bought a book 1000 reasons you're my friend,anyway tgt with it i bought , 1000 reasons to be happy or something like that (yup, reminds of a fren for awhile hahahaz). Anyway, 重点is..... stay HAPPY... and be contented.
I have goood news to share! I have found a new job! weettt!~!~ Very very happy! Anyway, met up with all my girlfriends recently and i realised really no job is perfect. All of us got our own set of problems at work. But of cos life still goes on. I read my previous entry.. felt the anger and the depression.. and of cos i felt silly for being so childish. Everyone have probs at work just how we resolve them and what steps and decisions to make that enable us to be happier. I realised i have been really fortunate, no matter what OR peeps (esp aunty pat, Justin, Jo, Reif, etc) treat me really well and im sure i will miss them in the future. Im sorry i make so many of my frens, my family and my boo worried about me. It's going to be a fresh start in about one month's time and im really excited and anticipating the change of a new environment and a completely different job.
So to all my frens, 要加油哦!!We must always have dreams.... The real world has no mercy for the weak, so we muz learn to be stronger!!