Love isnt just love only

i always tot that people who are crazily in love are impractical. Not that i have never been like that before but i believe that being tgt is more than just love. Ya and of cos the starting stage of any relationship is crazy hahaha i agree. Anyway, The topic came up with one of my bestie have some probs with her bf. And like i always like to say, if you are considering being tgt for long term you have to look into issues like background, lifestyles, personalities and not just feelings alone. Of cos we cant expect someone soooo compatiable and fit right into our lifestyle or have background similar to us or even personality that is a perfect match. But as much as we understand and respect the indifferences that everyone has, we also must look at how big these indifferences are and how we can cope with them. Lifestyles reflect how things are being done in a certain manner that we are accustomed to. It is hard to be changed....Well, while embracing the indifferences between couples, there is a need to understand one another's background as it explains why the party mentality about certain issues etc.

So my advice is try to solve or compromise and respect all indifferences, if cannot be done then its not healthy in the long run.

my dear fren, jiayou k, no matter what i will be here for you!